We’ve all heard it, probably.. When I announced my third pregnancy, it created a massive firestorm if people telling me that I needed to get my tubes tied (of course by force!!) that there’s so many people out there trying, so of course I’m not allowed to be happy, because I didn’t even try and yada yada yada.
Ya know, it pisses me off quite a bit. First of all, these people don’t know me, nor my family, no matter how much they wish that they did. They don’t know how I am as a mother. In all reality they only know what they see on TV.
I have very very few people close to me in my life, and that’s only people that I trust, one hundred percent.
Telling someone that’s pregnant and obviously happy, that they don’t deserve it, and that there’s SOOOOO many people that’s trying where it takes years is bullshit.. It’s not my problem nor responsibility that there’s people out there who’s TTC but can’t.. It’s not my fault and I do wish them the best.. I can’t walk around worrying about other people’s lives, I have to concentrate on my own.
Children are a blessing, and if the little bean sticks then we can’t wait to welcome him/her into the world. We’re happy, and proud! I can’t wait for Hope to be a big sister, and I can’t wait for Kyle to be a big brother again.
Don’t try to jeopardize other people’s happiness because YOU have issues. Don’t try and pretend to know people, when you obviously doesn’t, it’s inconsiderate and rude.. I know that a majority of those people writing are young girls and boys, so they might not know better.. And they most likely don’t know how much it actually hurts.. “Oh but YOU decided to be a public person, deal with it!” I don’t care, because behind that public person is a human being with feelings. I’m doing my very very best with my daughter to make sure she’s a happy healthy little girl, and apparently it’s working just fine! My daughter is awesome, along with her big brother she’s my pride and joy, and I love them unconditionally, just like I will the new baby.
I’m not gonna update too much about the pregnancy until I’m over 12 weeks along, since it’s still super early and it an go both ways.
To the people congratulating me, thank you so much, it warmed my heart tremendously! ❤️