I’m often wondering what drives people to stalk other people.. is it boredom? Jealousy? Is it low self worth and confidence?
I have over and over again been shocked with how deep those people dig into our lives, especially because I do not see myself as “famous” they don’t call me “famous” and yet they still try to uncover every bit of my “oh so boring life” and making my life a “hell”.
When I confront the people, I am often told that they couldn’t care less about my family and I, and that they have this oh so great and fantastic life but that just doesn’t stick to what they’re actually doing.
I think a lot of these people has experienced something in their child or adulthood that makes them the way they’re, just like me. I can relate, which is kinda creepy.. not because I’ve been stalking people, but I can relate with doing things that you really shouldn’t do, and that that’s the traits that we bring with us from our upbringing.
These people likes to sit in different groups bashing me, bashing me as a person and as a mother, as a wife and as a daughter, but they don’t realize that they’re doing the exact same thing as I was doing, they’re just not doing it with money, but with people. Instead of taking someone’s money, they’re trying to ruin my family, and th y have been now for many years. I get frustrated and last but least I actually get sad for them.. it’s not their fault, they think that what they’re doing is “normal” they think that buying background checks paying for background checks on a man they don’t know is okay. They think it is okay to contact schools, shelters and landlords.. they think that that is normal behavior and that they’re excused because “she did something bad”. I think that many of these people needs some heavy and good therapy, they need to talk to someone who understands their behavior and they need to focus on their family instead of a stranger from a TV screen.