Skippermama AKA Ditte Okman?

Det har i lang tid knirket og knaget oppe på første etage om Skippermamas sande identitet, og jeg må nu indrømme at der er nogle kvalmende ligheder mellem skippermama og…. DITTE OKMAN fra “Radio 24/7 – Det taler vi om”.

Skippermama (D.O.), slår jo godt og grundigt fast med stor fed streg under!!!!! At disse jo altså HAR et liv! Jo.. Det kan man jo godt kalde det, når man jo altså er “journalist” selvom at man måske etisk ikke helt er journalist!

Jeg har lagt mærke til en masse similarities mellem “de to”.

1. Kæreste: Skippermama og DO har det med at referere til min mand som “kæreste” velvidende om at vi er fuldt ud lovligt gift, dette er enten for bare at være respektløs ellers er det ren dumhed.. Your pick.

2. Amerikasland: Både DO og SM har det med at referere til USA som Amerikasland dette kan jeg se at DO har gjort kvalmende længe- coincidence?

Møde med SM på SB på fountain:

Ja.. Jeg har ikke rigtigt mødt eller lagt mærke til nogen danskere andet end turister jeg very casual med næsen i jorden har gået forbi.. Men i Februar måned kommer det frem på SM’s blog at hende og manden da gerne lige kører forbi SB på fountain og nyder en kop kaffe… Det er jo meget convenient når man den 28. Februar selv er herovre, ovenikøbet på Sunset boulevard som jo ligger uhyggeligt tæt på Drive through på Fountain ave. Og at man i marts måned kan finde min mor på Starbucks på Washington Blvd. Som ligger MEGET tæt på UBH som er det shelter som er nøje omtalt!

Herberg: Både SM og DO referere til shelteres som “herberger”.

Single: SM og DO har ufatteligt travlt med lige at pointere med stor lyserød streg, at min mand altså står som single på DSM.. Det er så også rigtigt fint, jeg kan så lige fortælle at min søde mand ikke bruger facebook eller andre sociale medier.

Sarkasme: Både DO og SM er begge ufatteligt sarkastiske i deres tale og skrive måde, og er identisk ubehøvlede med nøjagtigt de samme sætninger……..

USA korrespondent: Både DO og SM referere til en nær person som agerer “USA korrespondent” på radio 24/7 hjemmeside kan man læse at de ligenetop skriver om “journalist” Jacob Heinel, som værende deres “USA korrespondent”…. Kan man blive åbenlys nok?

Så er det jo også kodylt smart at man lige kan bruge radio 24/7s til at “reklamere” lidt for sin famøse blog og derved skabe en masse trafik.

Men nu kan Skipperditte jo gå igang med at finde ud af hvor vi nu flytter hen, for jeg kan love dig at det ikke bliver så nemt at lokalisere os nu.

Woman, you’re beautiful!

All up until I had my second child, I hated my body.. I hated my extra fat after my son, hated my stretch marks and I wished that i was slim like the models.

My self esteem way extremely low.

After I had my daughter I learned to love my body, especially because I married a man who adores me and loves my body.

I am a little bit to the heavy side still, but instead of hating my curves I love them!

And you can to! You’re absolutely gorgeous just as you are.. You’re perfect whether you’re slim, chubby tight or loose. You’re a female and you’re beautiful! You’re not supposed to look like a model, you’re supposed to look like you, and only you! I love my body, and you should love yours!

Leave me alone…

So.. I made a different profile, same pictures just different name.. Why? To be left alone.

I had a feeling that the dogs would sniff the shit, and they did almost immediately.. See even though I am a public person, I still have a need to have privacy, and have a private space where I 1. Can lay low.. And 2. Can have my friends and family without people who stalks me, start stalking and writing them.. A few of my family members are very sick, and they don’t need strangers writing them, but it seems like an almost impossible task.. I am still very firm on my decision to delete my instagram, it has gone way overboard and takes away way to much of my time that I can spend with my family.. The need to be on Facebook is simply for my friends and family and a few mommy groups.. I love conversations, and I love to be able to seek out advice from my fellow mamas, but I also love and value privacy and my own room and space.

It angers me that some people doesn’t have that boundary and doesn’t understand, that they can’t just do whatever the fuck they want.. So now I closed down my profile completely (not deleting it) but limiting posts to friends, groups to myself and friend requests.

A few of the dogs that has sniffed out my profile apparently have some major life issues themselves and has the need to write and harass me at any chance they get, and it’s kinda sad, that people that wish my daughter away from me, has lost their own kids.. Talking about wishing the same pain upon others that they’ve experienced themselves much?

Respect other people and get the same respect back.. karma is a bitch and it’s gonna come sooner than later, take it from a pro that’s experienced karma first hand.

Peace out.

We’re car owners!

It’s so awesome! I’ve been waiting for this for a very long time, finally I can go out and get my drivers license.. There’s a few things here and there to get fixed, like our tires, but all in all the car is awesome, and big!

I hate the smaller cars, I get awfully anxious in them, so we went for a bigger one and got a truck instead.. We feel like the queens (and king) of the road, and until I get my DL my mama and husband is my drivers.. A car makes it so much easier, instead of having to walk and take the bus, we can just jump in our car and go.

I am absolutely in love.

Når kommunen tager dit barn

Jeg har lige set programmet på DR1, og det et faktisk ganske spændende, i sær fordi jeg selv har fået frataget min søn.

Jeg får ofte spørgsmålet om jeg ikke er bange for om min datter bliver taget, får at vide at folk håber at kommunen i Danmark kommer og tager hende (hvilket er latterligt da min datter ikke er registreret i dk) og hvad jeg vil gøre hvis hun blev taget.. Dybt grænseoverskridende spørgsmål i min verden og ikke spørgsmål der hører nogen steder hjemme.

Selvfølgelig er jeg da bange for at min datter skulle blive taget fra mig, især når jeg ved at der sidder nogle mennesker som misbruger det at man kan anmelde andre til DCFS.. Det er rigtigt ærgerligt at vi har en befolkning i dag som taget hævn ved at ramme en hvor det gør aller mest ondt, men når det så er sagt så kan jeg ikke lade den frygt tage over.. Det er unfair for både mig og min datter.. Jeg vælger at nyde mit barn, og jeg vælger at skubbe frygten til side, for jeg ved at jeg er en god mor.. Jeg ved også at min datter udvikler sig og trives og ikke mindst ved jeg at både hendes far og jeg elsker hende over alt i universet. Jeg har et fantastisk netværk og min mand og jeg arbejder med os selv både ved forældreklasser og psykolog konsultationer, både som individuelle men også som par.. Jeg har mange ting med i min bagage og det er ting som for mig er godt og sundt at snakke om.. Jeg lærer også at kommunikere bedre med min mand og jeg lærer at håndtere mine egne frygter. Jeg ved at jeg har folk omkring mig som ville påpege hvis de mente at jeg gjorde noget galt, da de er mandated reporters.

Jeg er så taknemmelig for at jeg har fået en chance mere som mor, og selvom at jeg ikke hr kyle lige nu, så banker mit hjerte stadig for begge mine skønne børn.. De er hver i sær helt unikke.

Jo, jeg er bange for at min søn vil ende op med at hade mig når han bliver ældre, i sær fordi jeg ikke bare lige kan flyve ham herover som han gerne vil. Det knuger i mit hjerte når han spørger hvornår han må komme hjem til os igen og jeg bare ikke kan give ham et svar, men det er realiteten lige nu, og selvom at jeg skulle komme til Danmark, så ville jeg højst sandsynligt ikke få ham igen.. Herovre har jeg i det mindste en chance.

How many siblings does baby Hope have?

Well, there’s a lot of rumors going around, and some people even have the nerve to ask about Jermey’s second daughter.

Jeremy have three other children that he unfortunately doesn’t see.

With the two first, he did a very stupid thing, and he went to jail. Don’t get me wrong Jeremy did something terribly wrong, but fact is that it is 10 years ago and he paid for him, by 1. Going to jail and 2. Not seeing his kids.

The third one is 19 months if I remember correctly, and is removed from mother.. and she is now according to the latest update on her up for adoption.. When DCFS contacted Jeremy in the first place, there was no way that we could take her, although we wanted to, we were in a tent and did not under any circumstances have the money or environment for her.

Baby has been with her foster family now for so long that it is ideal that they adopt her, since she know them and to minimize her moving once again, and the reality is that Jeremy did not know her in any way.

And then she has Kyle, whom she is talking to every Monday.

Incest

I had a rough upbringing.

My father was an alcoholic and my mother was trying to keep things together after she kicked him out.

My father was what you would call a “closet alcoholic” and “quarterly alcoholic” meaning that it was not all of the time he was drinking, but he would binge drink for a week or two and then sleep for another week, then get sober for at little while and then start all over again.. On the outside my father looked rather good, taking his lifestyle in consideration, and you wouldn’t necessarily suspect alcohol abuse.

The courts forced my mother to send me on weekends with my father, and if she didn’t she would go to jail, so she really had no choice and I therefore don’t blame her for what has happened.

Many of you has read one way or another that my father sexually abused me when I was little, I have “forgiven him” for that, mostly because he is dead, and hating him brings me no where.

When I was three and a half years old, I came home from a weekend stay with my father, and my mother notices black bruises on on my pubic bone and on my inner thighs.

She immediately took me to the ER and they took pictures of it as well as my mother did.. They didn’t do further after that, my mother kept expressing her suspicion that something was going on, but again they denied it.

When I was 5 years old, my friend sister and I was playing with our dog (we were at the time living with the friend) and the day before I’d grabbed a mans crotch because he gave me a piece of gum in the train, I guess it was my way of saying “thank you”.

I “pretended” to be giving the dog a blowjob and my mothers friend noticed and pulled me out in the kitchen where she started questioning me. I confessed, and told them that I remembered things that my father did (touching him and me).

My mother immediately reported my father, and they started an investigation.. They questioned me, and I had to show them what he did with two dolls.

I slammed the dolls together three times and said “and now we won’t talk anymore about that!”. My lawyer and the police knew with my words and actions along with the pictures, that he indeed had done something, but I wasn’t ready to testify in court.

I completely shut down and wouldn’t talk further about it, so the police chose to close down the case (which they shouldn’t).

I still remember bits and pieces of what happened with my father, I remember him touching me, and I him, I remember the smell and that it was light outside, and I remember that I felt like it was wrong.

I chose when I was younger, to start talking about it.. Of course it’s not something that I’m telling everybody and anybody, but if people ask I answer, and I do once in a while talk to my husband about it.. I do it so i don’t suppress my feelings, I don’t want my feelings trapped inside of my body.

I was a child, and why happened to me was completely and utterly disgusting, it was wrong, and what was even more wrong was the way that the authorities handled it.. They should’ve moved forward with the case based on the evidence they had which was the video material, pictures and my actions with the dolls.

My advice to parents it, that if you suspect something, please do go ahead and report it, and if the police like here chooses to close down the case and you still have a suspicion, please push them! It’s your child, and it is about justice for your child..

I never got justice in what has happened with my father, and that’s part of the reasons I guess why I just do not have one inch of respect for the authorities in Denmark.

They neglected me, when I needed them to stand by my side, they decided for me that I wasn’t ready to witness in the court, instead of pushing me a little bit further..

I still to this day have flashbacks to what happened with my father and I.